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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  I wouldn't call her hot, unless frumpy mousey women with bad teeth, gummy smiles who dress like retired librarians are your thing...  (sorry. Just give me this bit of pettiness). [/quote]

Men always affair down. [/quote]

I mean, whatever makes you feel better about it, but the fact remains that she was filling a void in his romantic life that OP wasn’t. Maybe it was sex. Maybe it was support and encouragement. Maybe it was simply being kind and not keeping score in a relationship. We don’t know. But being hot isn’t a requirement. [/quote]

She's a secretary with 3 kids that needs another income. OP's husband was a easy target, she used sex and lies to achieve her goal.

How long she can keep up the facade is unknown. Wait till the three kids move in with them....lol

I'm betting OP is going to have the last laugh, I can tell it's one of those situations. Her Ex will wish he had kept it in his pants, his family in tact with peace and quiet. [/quote]

It’s interesting that you frame what happened as the secretary targeted the boss for his income.  I see something quite opposite as likely - the boss targeted his secretary for sex.  Which is a pretty gross abuse of power.

IMO, OP is pretty lucky to have this happen - it’s allowed her to escape a guy who abuses his power in a way that can destroy finaces and family.  she’s lucky it only destroyed a family. Can you imagine if the secretary had reported the sex as harrassment and DH had gotten fired?  He’d be unemployable. Not to mention potentially liable.  [/quote]

We don't know who made the first move. I do believe she's thinking more about her future than love for this guy. It's fairly common, he thinks he found his soul mate.  I would rather DH got fired, and gotten his just desserts,  a total creep who did OP a favor. Like I said this scenario is going to blow up in her ex DHs face.

Wait until all the kids start conversing back and fourth how these two met. This isn't going to be the Brady Bunch. [/quote]

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