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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just for some perspective: my oldest brother sexually abused me.  35 years later, I am still f’d Up from it in many ways.  It did not involve PIV sex as far as I remember.  But he preyed on me constantly...tried to corner me, feel my breasts, squeeze my butt, touch me under the covers in my room, masturbated into my bed while watching me while I pretended to sleep.  I NEVER felt safe in my house.  I had no lock on my bedroom door.  I started to eat for dissociation and comfort.  I gained a lot of weight.  I slouched.  I was lax in personal hygiene...not intentionally, just because I was so completely disconnected from my body..  I can see now that somehow I internalized that it was all my fault, that my growing breasts were too tempting and he couldn’t help himself.

I would never, ever have told my parents and never did.  This trauma was just the cherry on top of a lot of traumatic things in our home, and the last thing I would ever have done is cause more trouble for my family.  I would have denied it up and down.  No pediatrician could have known.  And if somehow CPS were ever called, I would have denied everything.  I felt to blame.  And I would never have wanted to draw attention to what was happening or talk about it.  I just wanted to get away.  I got away in food and escapist books.

The only safety I had was at my best friend’s house.  I slept there as much as I could in middle school.  
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I am so sorry,PP. I hope you can somehow find peace. This is why we need to protect children.[/quote]

Thanks.  Perhaps the most alarming thing to me in OP’s post is that the girl’s mom won’t let her sleep in the room with her friend.  There is no way a tween girl would rather sleep with her handsy brother than have a sleepover with a girl her own age.  The level of enabling here is frankly staggering.[/quote]
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