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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here, volunteering an update just because I wanna complain. I've now reached the point where I'm having Braxton Hicks contractions constantly for having the audacity to do strenuous activities such as "take a step" or "go outdoors." So close, yet so very far.

One thing I'm noticing though is that as my due date approaches, the genitalia issue seems to be on my mind more than it has been for a while - I've found myself going back down the Google rabbit hole and all that, and I think I'm afraid that somehow even after the baby is born the doctors won't be able to determine a reason why this happened. I also read somewhere that the testing to determine what's going on and how best to raise the baby (gender-wise) can take a week after the birth, and it's difficult to think of going a week without being able to give him/her a name or tell people anything, or know anything. For some reason also, lately, the baby "feels" like a girl to me all of a sudden, if that makes sense? Like in the same way I "felt" my son was a boy before we found out for sure. I know my feelings aren't facts and I'm not sure I believe in any kind of special mother's intuition, and most likely I'm just latching onto the the only definitive information I have which is the presence of XX chromosomes. But on the other hand, maybe it's not so crazy to think I'd have some special intuition or insight into a person that's literally growing inside my body? I dunno, I suppose I'm rambling a bit. And then there's also the small corner of my brain that's holding on to hope that this has all been some absurd ultrasound mistake and everything will look totally normal when the baby is born. I just hope I can get myself into some sort of peaceful headspace between now and the birth. [/quote]

Go with what feels right to you, OP. You are going to love this baby no what what it's gender is. I didn't name either of my kids for a few days, and I have a friend who waited weeks. If you are worried about it, maybe just choose a gender neutral name? [/quote]

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