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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is the affair still ongoing?[/quote]

[b]She says she ended it the next day.[/b]  Another reason I am considering reaching out the affair partner.[/quote]

You need to contact AP's spouse. Not as an act of revenge but because ethically it's the right thing to do. Failing to do so makes you complicit in the deception.[/quote]

I'm not in favor of you contacting her AP's spouse, but I'd want to contact him for sure to verify that he has this same understanding ding that your wife is trying to sell you.  Of course she said she ended it the next day.  That is the ONLY correct response when you are caught but you can never trust that.  Do you want to know how you can trust her?

Sit her down and tell her, this is the only way I'll even begin to believe you.  I need to see it for myself because I don't believe what you tell me after three years of lying to me.  Tell her to text the guy with you sitting there reminding him that it is over and will never happen again.  You want to see his response and how he talks to her.  She needs to use your name and mention her marriage and again, you will see just where they are at with this.

Or...she will refuse to do that and then you have your answer. Because if she really ended it with the guy and she is being straight with you right now, she would not hesitate to prove that to you.  If she isn't willing to do that, then she is still lying to you.[/quote]

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