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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have read through all the comments, and I still don't understand why OP said this is 100 percent her fault. OP, your DD is a separate person from you and you cannot control your DD's life. I see that you are really upset, but you are REALLY internalizing your DD's struggles, at a time when you should stay calm and be her rock, not up the ante. I was a girl like this, I had friends at home but at school everyone ignored me. It got much better after middle school. But I would have felt mortified if my mom judged me like this and was micromanaging my social life (or lack thereof).[/quote] Sometimes this is all just because a kid is the youngest in the class and socially immature. A kid can also not be the youngest and still be socially immature - and it still doesn’t mean that they are autistic. My DD was one of the oldest and still school was a bit socially complicated for her until she started to catch up in her late teens. Before that we made sure that she had activities outside of school, yes. She was also sent to a school where kindness was emphasized (good social climate for everyone). She’s very bright and now she’s at a college with similar people and she loves her life and her peers.[/quote]
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