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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why do these men line up to take on family?[/quote]

Because they need help and assume wife will do what mom has done. If I’d known all his mom did behind my back, I would never have even dated him.

Because they are lonely. When we met, he was so active in many groups. I thought he was just an extrovert with a lot of spare time and a social activist. I didn’t realize he was keeping himself busy bouncing from activity to activity because he lacked deep friendships. Many of his HS and college buddies ghosted him because their gfs and wives couldn’t tolerate him. He invited just 2 friends to our wedding and only one showed. A year later, that one had vanished as well. I should have paid better attention to this.

Because they think they can be the fun dad. My ex was until the kids got sick of their injuries in his care and being humiliated by his behavior in public. Not normal adolescent shame, but in ES complaining that people stared and other adults chastised him for carelessness.

Because it is a measure of adulthood in our society and also outright expected in some cultures. My ex is Jewish from a Conservadox background. Marriage wasn’t viewed as optional.[/quote]

Well stated. I hear you. Everyone has sympathy for them, but the families who have to live with it are seen as lacking compassion. [/quote]

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