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[quote=Anonymous]Wow. I previously posted that I thought wife should let 2 year old go.

Now . . . Wow. Just sitting here feeling so lucky not to be OP's wife.

OP, if you're still reading - it's only reasonable for you to ask or expect your wife to "let it go and move on" if your mother has sincerely apologized. You said she refused to do so. It doesn't matter if she meant to offend or not (and frankly, I don't see how you can seriously think that calling a pregnant woman lazy and criticizing her eating was not meant to be offensive). The fact is that what your mother said was objectively rude and out of line. Your wife was justifiably offended and is owed and apology, regardless of your mother's intentions.

You acknowledge that your mother's statements were not ok, but back her up on refusing to apologize. That's not fair and, frankly, is a huge cop out. Man up.

Also, your dad yelled at your wife? Also really not cool. Adults do not yell at each other, regardless of the circumstances. They may have issues but they should be addressed respectfully. It's not appropriate for your dad to tell at her and you should tell him so. I can really imagine my FIL yelling at me, but I am 100 percent certain that if he did, my DH would call.him out on it. Again, I'm back to - man up. [/quote]

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