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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Serious question-do men like a challenge anymore?[/quote]

1. Women who describe themselves as giving men a "challenge" are usually just difficult people that like to see their personal flaws as some kind of saucy appeal.

2. Most men do not want their dating lives to be a challenge. They want it to be enjoyable and pleasant.

3. The challenge-dynamic where the man is expected to work for your affection sets a bad precedent for the relationship.

[b]4. If you try to give men a "challenge" you will disproportionately attract people who want to overcome the challenge and sleep with you and then move on.[/b]

5. The whole "challenge" dynamic where women are expected to male things difficult and men are supposed to fight through it, is heavily interrelated with a lot of bad and harmful things in our culture (sexual assault, harassment, etc). It's not good for women and not good for men.[/quote]

This is very true. And this is why you see many successful actresses and models ended up marrying jerks and divorcing them a few years later. [/quote]

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