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so who cares if a woman is more willing to talk to an attractive man? does she not get to decide who she talks to? [/quote]

Standards of what constitutes harassment shouldn't hinge on your level of attractiveness with more restrictive standards of behavior imposed on people simply because they're unattractive. That doesn't mean women should have to date ugly guys, but it seems a little arbitrary to say that a man has behaved badly initiating a social encounter because he's ugly when you wouldn't characterize the exact same behavior the same way if the guy happened to be attractive. [/quote]

jfk. Harassment is literally defined as the conduct being "unwanted." That means that yes, the woman gets to decide if a particular man is attractive to her, and therefore the conduct is OK. Are you suggesting that women must be forced to speak to ir date all men and can't decide for herself? And on the flip side, do you somehow imagine that all women welcome sexual attention from men if they are attractive? [/quote]

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