Reply to What is the primary problem in your marriage?

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "What is the primary problem in your marriage?"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous]DH has anger management problems, he rages when you least expect it, at me, the kids and his own 85 year old father and family.  He has never apologized, acknowledged his rage, and in fact will try to turn it around and blame you or claim it didn't happen.  When he is yelling, I ask him to stop yelling then he claims I am the one who is yelling.  It's exhausting.  After 14 years of marriage and 2 kids, I am ready to split up due to his pattern of behavior.  I have learned that I can only control my reaction to his rage.. and lately I am so over it, I respond by staying away from  him as much as possible.  The marriage will likely end one day when he completely blows up like a volcano.  He often asks for my opinion on random things, and when I share my option with him, he belittles me and my feelings.  He sometimes gas lights me.  If you asked him what is the primary problem in our marriage, he will probably say that we don't have enough sex.  What he fails to understand is that I don't want to have sex with someone who constantly rages at me.  We would have a better sex life if he were actually nice to me[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics