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[quote=Anonymous][quote]Wife wants to have a regular date night, H agrees. Both were supposed to come up with ideas. The wife proposed a bunch of creative ideas. Husband 2: 1 involving their kid and 1 a movie he knew she wouldn't want to see. They finally agree on a cooking class. H agrees to sign them up. 3 months pass and finally he says he has no time to sign them up. How is this not complete indifference and disregard for her feelings?

I feel like I am taking crazy pills in this thread. You all put up with way more than I do, I can tell you that. Idk what to make of that.[/quote]

Did he agree though? At every turn, he's not actively participating. He doesn't seem into it. I'm reading it more like she's telling him to make a list of things to do so he half assed it instead of ignoring the request/demand and maybe trying to avoid a fight. Then she shoots down the thing he wants to do, doesn't really seem into modifying his likes into something they can both enjoy, and talks him into a cooking class. Then instead of signing up for it, she puts it off on him, when he wasn't really interested in the first place, and gets upset when he doesn't follow through. He shouldn't have said ok when she told him to book the class, but if she wants to do it, she should take more initiative. The guy really sounds like he doesn't want to do date night. If you want him to go, you're going to have to make it more appealing for him.

It would be like a husband complaining to a wife about not getting enough sex. So he asks her to pick a few positions she'd like to try and he'll suggest some too. Wife lists two and DH dismisses them as too boring. Then tells her lets do it this way. When you're ready, you should put on some lingerie and hit me up. Wife never puts on lingerie and hits him up. I wonder why. [/quote]

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