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PP, you really do sound unhinged. It also sounds to me like you have zero respect for fathers in any context. A judge awarding a father full custody rather than commanding him to pay alimony + child support to provide stability sounds to me like there was something else going on in this situation. It is rare to hear of a father being awarded full custody. Frankly, it's rare to hear of ANYONE being awarded full custody when both parents want custody. That you think it's perfectly okay to take children away from their father but think that anyone who separates a child from his or her mother is "scum" says a lot about you as a person, none of it good.

Nothing the PP you're raging at posted indicates that her stepkids hate her. Nothing indicates that the children are experiencing "sheer misery" or concealing negative feelings towards the PP. You are clearly projecting something. Go ahead and tell yourself whatever stories you need to paint this woman as a venal child-stealer, but I would be very surprised if that is what the situation truly is.[/quote]
A lot of things were possible in Georgia twenty years ago with the right judge.

The father separated himself when he went off and dated that woman before divorcing their mother.  And she must have felt it was OK to separate her own children from her father - seeing as she took them along to live with her new husband.

Go home tonight and tell your young kids that daddy is leaving, and they have to go live with him and his new love.  They won't live with mommy anymore.  And please report back tomorrow with the story of their emotions.  [/quote]

Hey PP, tell me again how you're absolutely not personally connected to the situation when you somehow know that this occurred in Georgia 20 years ago?[/quote]
I'm gonna repeat this slowly for you - this woman posts on DCUM ALL THE TIME, with personal details of her situation, and has been, for years.  The story of a father and his new wife getting full custody of the husband's young kids, whose ages she usually mentions, is unusual enough that it sticks.

Go to the Parenting-Special Concerns forum, and search for "Georgia".  It's there in all its glory. [/quote]

You're not helping your situation at all. You're essentially attacking a person that you don't like because you've "seen her story all over DCUM" and have managed to remember it from the hundreds, if not thousands of threads here. You sound like a borderline stalker. My advice is that you go put yourself in some good therapy instead of spending your days trolling through threads on DCUM, it would probably do you a lot more good.[/quote]

Isn't that what usually happens? We are all just stories to each other. No one here really knows anyone else.  This story isn't difficult to remember, especially when the poster is so generous with the details. I happen to think that story is awful. So?

Thanks for your concern about my mental health - I prefer my conviction that children should stay with their mothers, even if their mothers are guilty of having less money. You are welcome to think it's unhealthy if you like. [/quote]

Oh PP, that's not the part that I think is unhealthy, but good luck to you![/quote]

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