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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your son sounds really nasty to bring up sister's adoption.

If he were a good dad, he's sue for paternity and visitation.  They can drop their child support motion but he does not have to drop his visitation/custody one.[/quote]

OP here.  What are you talking about?  He said it meaning he loves her and DNA does not matter.

Clearly, he is not a good dad.  He would not have had an affair with no condom if he had any respect for his kids at home.
He doesn't want to raise this other child.  
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He is not a good dad if he is walking away from his child, however his affair had nothing to do with his kids, but it did with your marriage.  They are seperate issues.  He should not have had an affair, condom or no condom but that is about you and your marriage not this child or your kids.  He may not want to raise another child, but that child is in this world and deserves support from him.[/quote]

This child does not deserve support from the biological dad.  He is basically adopted.  I am an adoptive parent also and want no support from the biological parents.  I am the mom.[/quote]

This child is not adoption as there has been no adoption.  As an adoptive parent, parental right have no been terminated.  This is not an equal situation (yes we adopted and my husband has biological kids as well).  There is obviously a lot more to this story we will never know.

If stepdad was a good dad he would adopt the child and financially provide.[/quote]

He is the legal father.  He does not have to adopt.  A child born within a marriage is automatically the father.[/quote]

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