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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Another day, another page of this thread.[/quote]

This topic never dies.  Why can't people who cannot stay faithful just admit it before they get married so the other person can make a decision based on this information?[/quote]

If my husband had told me before we got married that he thought sex once or twice a month, whether or not I was satisfied with each encounter and with the frequency, was sufficient, I wouldn't have married him and wouldn't have cheated.[/quote]

Haha! Oh, PP, I mock your rationale. I have it WAY worse wrt frequency and creativity than you do, but I had a long conversation about it w my spouse and laid things out, asked him lots of questions, talked talked talked. I made it clear I wasn't the cheating kind, that id tell him the direction I was going so he wouldn't be surprised and could make his own choices. I also told him he should consider this conversation one of those "talks," that things were going not-good and I was starting to pull away. I was 30% maritally separated from him in my own mind, if not more, and things were slowly sliding to 40%.

I told him going begin his back would make me feel like crap and be the coward's way out.

We're figuring stuff out.

I think your approach was cowardly and puts the root cause for the cheating on the wrong person. You could've just told him. It would've sucked, but that's what grownups do: Have hard conversations about difficult things.[/quote]

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