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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We left. She called me a selfish bitch and said I was ruining things for everyone else.  [/quote]

Sorry this impacted your sister's vacation too.  [/quote]

OP here. I'm done putting everyone else first. From now on its about my husband and child. [/quote]

Go OP!  I've been there. The one who ruined the vacation was your mother. You have taken the first step toward establishing boundaries. Go home, lick your wounds, talk to your husband, therapist, or friend and realize how effed up this relationship has been for your entire life. Once you've started to process it, you can figure out how to manage it moving forward. [/quote]

This is what my therapist and I are working on.  Like a PP, I was so used to this that I didn't know it was abusive until an impartial third party pointed it out.  I do know that 7 days was way too long for us to be in the same house together.  I really should have known better on that one.[/quote]

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