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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]But people don't call you fat and selfish over one instance. Isn't it likely that OP reverted back into a child like role with her mom? Perhaps she did nothing but expect to be waited on hand and foot and provided for all her needs yet her mother was expecting her to behave like a guest or at least like an adult. I've seen this behavior from my sister well into her 40's where she would just be like a child, selfish and needy and not helpful in the least. I think dysfunctional goes both ways.[/quote]

I think you're projecting here. [b]The above story we've been given doesn't support your theory[/b]. Even if the daughter in this intance wasn't being helpful, the mother's behavior is inexcusable. Sure there are two sides to every story, and the truth often lies in the middle. However, we are working from a certain set of facts and trusting we have a reliable narrator. 
You are embellishing with your own narrative. Stick to what we've been told.

OP, if you are still around I'd love to know what your sister said about all of this.[/quote]

yes, it does. If OP were not in fact fat, she would have said something along the lines of "I just had a baby, and I've lost all the weight except for 10 lbs and I'm working on it" in her post.  Or "My mom is off her rocker.  I'm 5'5" and weigh x pounds."[/quote]

Do you think calling me fat will magically make me lose weight?[/quote]

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