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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Adoption is truly awful. Sometimes love is unfair and people can't have bio kids. The solution is not stealing other people's children under the guise of giving them a better life. I'm sickened by the concept. [/quote] You are under the mistaken notion that everyone are capable of and want to raise their biological children, but hey, those kid's lives don't matter because you are sickened. You know what? Your bias , lack of understanding of reality, and complete disregard for the welfare of those children disgust me.[/quote]

There are two sides to adoption - the good where there are ethical adoptions where birthparents did choose adoption for their children and the other side, where kids are basically stolen or bought and families are losing kids that should have not been placed for adoption.  We've been on both sides of it, which is why I no longer support adoption in its current state.  Reality is most people adopt to meet their needs, not the child's needs.  You have a need to be a parent and adoption for what ever reason meets that need.  If you were doing it for the child, you'd consider foster-adopt children or older international kids who have significant needs.  Even then, sometimes one can question the motive as with foster-adopt, its free and often kids come with a sizable stipend and health care till they are adults.[/quote]

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