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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]O.p here again. I've been thinking about this more and my feeling of disconnection from him is not simply related to the sex, though that is the most glaringly obvious. The other thing about him is that he is not introspective. He's very much a "doer." If I want to vent to him about work or family or friends, he doesn't seem to get that I just want to pour my feelings out without him trying to "fix" it. [b]He doesn't like to discuss his emotions[/b] or his opinions on social issues. He thinks it's boring navel gazing. He hates web sites like slate or salon or opinion pieces. [b]He doesn't like to gossip[/b] (which, I know people usually don't admit to enjoying that but I do, especially after a party). He doesn't like to "speculate" which is what he calls my attempts to discuss what might happen to people we know, etc. He doesn't drink. He's not very complicated. He does his job, comes home and wants to eat dinner/futz about in the garden/play with the kids. And this is what makes him completely happy! I guarantee you if you asked him to rate our marriage 1-10 he'd say 8 +.[/quote]

[b]i am sure your dream rough sex guy will be doing these with gusto...[/b]

OP you sound like you have WAY to much time on your hands. i am your age, with career, kids and DCUM :D i barely have any time to reflect on my DH.[/quote]

I have the perfect solution for you OP - get together with a butchy lesbian or gay man, although no offense to such people.[/quote]

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