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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I just read my own post. You know what the problem is? I don't feel chemistry with him. I never have. We don't click in that way. People need that in their lives, don't they? It's not a minor issue?[/quote]

Honestly, I'm not someone who is anti-divorce, who believes in saving the marriage at any cost, but I think that kids need financial and emotional stability far more than adults need chemistry.  Especially adults who chose this situation.  I think that choosing divorce in this situation would be cruel and selfish.

I'll also say that if you divorce in this situation, you'd be lucky to get 50% custody.  I can't imagine giving up 50% of my time with my kids in home that I'd have a successful dating life.
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I do not know ONE SINGLE divorced woman who does NOT have more than 50% custody. Furthermore, I know a woman who left her DH for the same reasons OP states. Poor guy got thrown out of his house and is now an every other weekend and Wednesday night dad. He fought hard for 50%, but didn't get it because of historically the mom (though she worked) was the primary parent.[/quote]

you are SO WRONG on so many levels.  one example does not make for a rule across the board.  and jurisdictions matter you twit.

- divorced dad with 75% of primary custody[/quote]

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