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Reply to "not so subtle weight comments from DH ruining my vacation"
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[quote=Anonymous]I'm certainly not in as good shape as I was when I met my husband. Sometimes I get sensitive about whether he's judging me and I call him out on it. The thing I would suggest is telling him specifically that this is not helpful and is just hurting you, but then pair that with telling him what WOULD help you. It sounds like you're unhappy with your weight and want to lose weight, what if you said, "I came on this vacation to enjoy the vacation and your comments are not helping and are just making me resent you. What I would appreciate is if you could enjoy this vacation with me and then when we get home, I'd like you to help me find time to get to the gym and find time to do more healthy cooking (or whatever you think would help you)." He doesn't know how to help you but he sees that you're struggling -- help him.[/quote]
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