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Reply to "Sister says 14yo nephew not coming to my wedding because of his sports tournament. Thoughts?"
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[quote=Anonymous]My guess is that most of the people posting here who believe the kid and his mom are being selfish have no conception of how selfish it is to want someone else to put their life on hold for their "big day" or how hypocritical it is to say they're prioritizing "supporting the family" by forcing a family member to forgo something they've worked quite hard for. If "supporting the family" is so important, how about we all grow up and support the boy going to his sporting event, which (a) understandably means more to him than his aunts wedding considering the amount of time he's likely put into it, and (b) shouldn't ultimately change how his aunt feels about her wedding day one bit. It's a good practice to at least analyze the size of the benefit to you against the size of the sacrifice you're making someone else make.[/quote]
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