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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This argument, which happens at least once a year, is absurd. If you don't like the rules of the club, don't go to that club. Why should my 10 year old daughter have to deal with your 5+ year old son staring at her while she changes? You can change you son at home, in the car, or even by putting a towel around his waist so that he can do a deck change. You could also accompany him into the men's locker room. As a father, I would rather you see me naked than have your son see my daughter naked. When you break the rule and bring your son into the ladies locker room, you are just saying that you think his welfare is more important than the welfare of my daughter and all of the other young girls in that locker room. [/quote] Firstly my 5 year old son has ABSOLUTELY ZERO interest in looking at your 10 year old daughter. Secondly, if your 10 year old daughter should think that my 5 year old son was looking at her it is YOUR DUTY as a parent to tell her that he's just a little kid, that she should mind her own business and get on with getting clothed. Where are all you people that see so much nudity in the changing room anyway? I certainly don't ever see ANYONE naked, nor am I, myself, standing there naked in any way that people can really see anything significant.[/quote] If you think nudity is such a non-issue, just change your son outside the locker room in the lobby. If he protests that people are looking at him, just tell him to mind his own business and get on with getting clothed. And people are not objecting to boys under 5, they are objecting to boys older than 5. A girl should feel free to change in the girl's locker room. [/quote] Agree. No-one is stopping her. And a mother should feel free to keep her young child with her in the changing room, regardless of gender.[/quote]
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