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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP - any news?

I don't get why this has become a flame war on SAH vs WOH.  This really doesn't seem to be about that but about communication in the marriage, and making unilateral decisions.[/quote]

Because SAH moms ON THIS THREAD (not universally) think their "calling" to be a wife and mother gives them the right to stop working without discussing it with their husbands and go so far as to call the man a loser/selfish for not being the "default" breadwinner.

This might be the 1st DCUM thread where a large group of women are defending the position of the man.[/quote]

I agree.  I think it's also making a lot of SAHMs nervous that their husbands might feel like OP.[/quote]

Yup.  Lots of well-reasoned WOHM points here.  This thread is a trainwreck for SAHMs.[/quote]

Wow, Im so glad my husband believes what I earn is mine and what he earns is mine too. Been least its been that way for 21 years..............[/quote]

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