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You're an idiot.  There is a huge difference between making conversational chit-chat about someone's day, and allowing someone to penetrate your body.  Require very different levels of emotional investment. 
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I explained how ridiculous it is for a spouse to suddenly "prefer" not to meet an essential need. Sex, chit-chat, financial security, there are a lot of needs within a marriage and it is not acceptable to just choose not to do that part of the marriage and expect the spouse to keep doing all the other parts.

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As for the invitation to jerk one out, your welcome.  You shouldn't need my invite.  Sounds like you have a lot of tension and anger and jerking it more frequently might really help with that.  Man up and just do it.  
[/quote]I did not need your invite but I appreciate your interest here. Tension and anger... you called me an idiot, probably you should get busy yourself.

[quote=Anonymous]And no her choice is not selfish.  Her choice is to take care of YOUR CHILDREN, you ingrate.  "At least 30 minutes a week."  Are you kidding?  That's it?  Why dont you hire someone to do some of her tasks if you want to get laid so much and she only has 30 minutes in her entire week to spare?  or pitch in yourself?  Oh right, that would require some work, something you seem incapable of. [/quote]
My point was if there isn't even 30 spare minutes in a week to prioritize sex, THAT IS SELFISH OF HER. I pitch in plenty. I also set reasonable boundaries. Any mother who can't or won't set reasonable boundaries that fills the entire week so there isn't a moment for sex, THAT IS SELFISH.[/quote]

No, it does not make her selfish.  It does make her burdened with a  very self centered partner, though.  Some needs are more important than others, seeing as you have admitted the fact that you CAN indeed pleasure yourself, then sex is not as important as other needs SUCH AS YOUR CHILDREN.  If intimacy is really what you are after, then do things that make her feel close to you with no expectation of sex.  Like we have said, take her out, get a babysitter all that.

But you are clearly a little baby who wants to whine about it and doesnt want a solution that involves you doing any work at all. [/quote]

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