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[quote=Anonymous]I will answer you as if this is a real thread and not a psychology experiment/troll, which I doubt.

I think it's going to be really, really hard to come back from this. You didn't do anything wrong and yet it is totally understandable why he would be feeling confused, hurt and rejected. It will be difficult for him to just shake this off and move forward, because he will always have that image of you with the other guy and the knowledge that your relationship wasn't what he thought it was.

You can tell him that the reason you didn't have sex with him was because you actually saw the most long-term potential with him and that you didn't want to get attached too fast and get hurt as you have in the past, etc but I don't think it will do much to make him feel better. Ultimately he just has to decide if he can move past this.

Just be honest with him, some version of, "I really like you and have no desire to be with anyone else. I don't care about that other guy at all, but I care so much for you and am so sorry I hurt you. I think I was just trying to protect myself because I've been hurt in the past, and it had been a while since I'd dated anyone. And I guess I didn't realize that you were serious about me yet.  I'm so sad that this may have derailed our relationship and I would love a second chance, but I understand if that's not possible". Just be sincere and honest, that's really the only way. And if he gives you another chance, show him with your actions that you are attracted to him and care for him.

Tell him, "I would love a second chance to show you how I feel, and how attracted to you I am".

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