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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]SAHM you don't want to know how I spend my days. Just very slowly. I only do things I like and feel like doing. It is a surprise to me when I have to rush. Don't like to so I take it easy. Spend a lot of time on vacation and at the beach, with my family and riding my horse. Takes a lot of time to do these things at a leisurely pace. Worry about money, no not so much. Our equity just keep growing. Lots of hobbies and I sculpt. Love to cook.[/quote]

I'm the one that told people to "own it". Honestly, this is the type of SAHM I like. Keeping up her interests, not complaining about how hard her life is compared to everyone else. It's the kind of WOHM I like, too!

And, yes, we all Parent our children. The thing I hate the most is when a SAHM says something like "My job is TWENTY-FOUR HOURS!".....because working Moms don't come home to children and have Parenting also. We *all* work 24 hours.

And we should *all* be taking time for ourselves in order to remain interesting people.

And, lady, you had 5 kids. I will assume with you either planned them or were dumb about birth control while satisfying your wonderful sex life. I don't feel bad for you. Yes, most people don't have 5 kids.

In any case, the thread topic is just asking if you're worried about your finances, really. [/quote]

Huh? I was the one who said to own it. But I agree with you :)
Sure, SAHM of 5 kids IN SCHOOL, I have breaks at work. But I'm not a martyr listing how busy I am online (mail runs.. Wtf? How inefficient are you?)
And the sex stuff ( mentioning it twice in as many posts and saying "yummy" when you're probably in your 50s? Transparently desperate and bizarre.[/quote]

Another previous poster, but are we Puritans in this area?  As a therapist I find it refreshing that someone is open enough to express sexual desire inside a long term relationship (or in most contexts for that matter), no matter what their age.  Sexual openness and sexual activity should not disappear because we are older.  Open your mind and your libido will follow.  PP, I hope that after your busy day at work, and your added child and home responsibilities, you find time to express and enjoy the type of life with your spouse that other posters do.  You deserve it yourself, and you should not condemn it in others.[/quote]

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