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Reply to "SAHMs, do you worry about your husband leaving you?"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. First off, I want to apologize for throwing out the adjective "lunatic" at the beginning of this thread. I didn't want to insult anybody. I just want to say that I have learned from my own experience. XH had demanded that I SAH with our kids. Mostly so that he wouldn't have to do anything around the house. I refused and kept working. I don't earn much but the work boosts my self-esteem. And a few years out lo and behold, he decided that life would be better with another women 15 years my junior. Since he was also a big spender, there wasn't much by way of assets to be split. So I was really glad about my decision, even if I didn't get any alimony (which educated women don't get nowadays anyway). The question works both ways: what if you want to leave him? Why would you get trapped in a situation where you have to rationalize his fault/cheating etc (see parallel thread) and cannot afford to get out?[/quote]
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