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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]ts a pretty valid requirement, considering he was providing her food, shelter, clothing, and a gym membership, which she used to fuck another man for 3 years. Paid for by him.[/quote]

Food, shelter, clothing, and gym are also pretty valid requirements for someone who[b] keeps house, raises the kids, and does all the cooking/cleaning.[/b]

If their agreement was that one parent would stay home, he wasn't doing her a goddamn favor by paying the bills.

And once again, it doesn't justify sexual coercion.

Old life back, no. End of marriage, sure. Joint custody, yes. Kids need both their parents.

Same as if cheating spouse were a DH.

This thread is getting old.[/quote]

Not even remotely the same if husband was the cheater.

How good was she keeping house and raising her kids?  She certainly had time to engage in sex with another man for THREE years.  Did he fuck her in her maritalbed?  Most definitely.  While hubby was away paying for her ass.  Raising her kids?  She ruined her whole family.  Great job she did.

He has every right to know exactly what she did with gym stud.  Everything she did on his dime, behind his back, when she was supposed to be "raising the kids".  Hell never trust her, but hes giving her a chance to be his slut.[/quote]

You are pathetic.  Women do not belong to their husbands.  Men have no greater or lesser rights regarding SAHMs or WOHMs.  A couple deciding that one parent should be home does not mean the SAHM is doing everything "on her DH's dime."  I am a SAHM and (1) my DH and I treat our finances the same way we did while I was a WOHM, and we always will, (2) I could stay home for over a decade, pay half of our expenses, and not run through the savings I'd accumulated before having kids.  So don't go thinking all SAHMs are living on someone else's dime.  Oh, and plenty of WOHMs adn working husbands manage to find a way to cheat long-term while still being highly professionally successful.  None of this excuses OP's bad conduct and disloyalty, but my God your statements about SAHMs and just so out-of-touch and pathetic.  I can't imagine any self-respecting woman would marry you.  [/quote]

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