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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Be honest, you didn't really want to work all that much and preferred being home with the kids rather than enduring corporate or office drudgery. It's a totally fine and understandable preference, but own it. You were relieved that husband's high salary could accommodate that lifestyle preference even if it could potentially end up in a result like this. Well, welcome to the result... Time to start taking accountability for your choices and preferences and, ultimately, life by probably getting a job now rather than fretting too much over a spousal support settlement. [/quote] Who cares? WTF does it matter if OP preferred being home with the kids to being in an office? How is it your business? And you do not know what the OP and her spouse agreed when she reduced her hours to be a more accessible parent. I really dislike this sort of speculation and finger pointing with heavy judgement dripping from your words. I'm the higher earner at home. And yeah, I'd prefer to stay at home with my kids. But we make choices that are best for our family at that time. So STFU and stop judging other people, please. [/quote]
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