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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just lie, and stay home when their born.[/quote]
This is the move, OP. Why make a problem so soon before something happens?[/quote]

Leaving aside the morality of it or the fact that it’s going to poison the marriage to start with such a basic lie, what’s going to happen when she says she’s staying home, he says no, they fight, there is resentment and there is a divorce and now she’s left with kids and no marriage and the headaches of joint custody, being tied to an ex through children and having expenses that come with children in two households. [/quote]

Many women want to stay home with their kids. The option isn’t always available. Really depends on the finances.

I find that if a woman comes from a wealthy family. It is much easier for the woman to want to stay home. If she has student loans or the husband comes from a poor or middle class family, it isn’t so easy for the woman to decide to stay home.

I have a good friend who is rich. Her dad left her an inheritance when he passed. She doesn’t have to save for retirement or worry about saving for kids college tuition. It is all taken care of. If OP is dating a guy who is saving to just buy a home, he isn’t going to be thrilled or agree to marrying someone he has to support financially. If the guy is rich, he probably won’t care but OP better bring something amazing to the table. [/quote]

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