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Do you hate men so much?
Women initiate 75% of divorces in the US. They are the ones who decide to break up families. 
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Are women “breaking up families,” or are women finally financially and legally able to leave marriages that are abusive, exploitative, emotionally dead, chronically unequal, or fundamentally built around the woman overfunctioning while the man coasts?

Also, a lot of men never formally leave. They just slowly disengage for years. They become emotionally absent, avoidant, selfish, rageful, addicted, checked out, or dead weight while the wife keeps dragging the entire family system forward until she finally collapses and files.

The divorce papers are often just the paperwork version of a marriage that already died years earlier.
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Exactly. When women divorce, it’s the man’s fault. When men divorce, it’s the man’s fault.

Why is that so hard to understand, especially here of all places?[/quote]

I mean, when you suddenly leave your wife and 3 kids for a 17 yrs younger colleague, that kind of is your fault,  no?[/quote]

Just a head start on the lauded gray divorce, no?[/quote]

No, it’s not. [/quote]

Sometimes “staying together for the kids” becomes intolerable [/quote]

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