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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They look so old because they don't take care of themselves as we do.  I don't want to say how much I spend per year between laser treatments, skin care, hair coloring and cuts, pilates, gym, teeth, clothes, supplements, and clean food.  I mean, it's kind of nuts.  Of course, men my age will look much older than I do.  I p[/quote]

This is hyper delusional. No one is mis judging your age. Women may tell you that you look younger to flatter you and be a good friend. Men will flatter you for engagement and potential conquest. NO ONE IS ACTUALLY MIS-JUDGING YOUR AGE. I'm in my late 50s, have told dozens of female friends over the years how "young" they look but it has never once been true. I have never yet found out someone's true age afterward and been surprised.

Yes, some people are more well maintained than others. That is not the same as looking a different age. If I have a 50-year-old Ferrari in mint condition, I still do not think it is a brand new Ferrari. No one would.[/quote]

Asian American here. I didn’t look much different at age 40 from 30. People often thought I was in my twenties and people often were shocked when I said I was 40. Then Covid happened and I’m now almost 50. At age 48, I definitely look forties and older than a short few years ago.

I have friends who are almost 50 who look fantastic. They put a lot of effort into their looks, had mommy makeovers, etc. I think it takes a lot of effort to maintain looking good in your fifties. I have never done Botox or laser therapy and salmon dna or other things some of my friends do.[/quote]
Black women age beautifully too. I wish white people would stop making broad statements as if what applies to them holds true for all of humanity. White skin ages terribly. Darker skin not so much.[/quote]

Every single black woman I know over 40 weighs north of 210 pounds. Without exception.[/quote]

Then you don’t know many black women.

The women in my circles are all within a normal weight regardless of race. [/quote]

pp is probably fat, too. it's contagious and those are her people. [/quote]

Yeah, um, how many black women does she actually "know"?

-Signed a fit black women in her 40s, married with two kids that has plenty of other fit black girl friends looking young in their 40s too

Side note: My coworkers keep trying to secretly guess my age. Some people in the building think I'm an intern. Not sure whether to be offended or laugh. [/quote]

Are you me? 😊
I laugh ..

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