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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Weaponized incompetence at its finest.[/quote] This is it and it is so, so annoying. My DH is pretty good but it took years of me saying that this is what we are doing and then delegating certain things. And he knows if he doesn't, I'll do it my way at the price point I want and he gets no say. But, I truly do not understand why men do this. I get it may not be their thing or they "don't understand" why it's necessary. But we all do things that fall into this category. And if it make the family happy by spending a few minutes doing this stuff, why wouldn't you do it? I know my anal-retentive DH likes the dishwasher filled a certain way (which I don't care about or understand) but i do it. It really isn't that hard, guys.[/quote] It also "really isn't that hard" to comprehend that a man who is not a practicing Christian sees no need to fake-participate in a Christian holiday. [/quote] Again. Doesn’t matter. You’re a unit and don’t get to carve things out just because you don’t see the need. Also Easter bunny is not religious. It’s candy for his children. Finally, he knew Easter would be celebrated if the wife celebrates it. And unless he waited until the night b4, he had enough warning. You’re just making excuses for her DC being a clueless and a whiner instead of just doing one small task. How often do women get told on her to just “tell them she you want something.” [/quote] Again. It does matter. Maybe he doesn’t want to dishonor another religion or cultural tradition by mocking it. [/quote]
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