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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It always strikes me that these are the only threads where men are portrayed as thoughtful and considerate.  The men discussed in this thread are thinking about their future children, considerate of their wives career ambitions and how they will align with their own, proactive and wanting to be involved in their community, and thoughtful about how their marriage will work within their family and larger community.  The men portrayed here seem to really know what they want and to have given a lot of thought to marriage, children, and family.

What’s that about?  Why are men given so much credit in the “can this person attract a man like this” threads when they are kind of torn apart in just about every other thread.

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I'll field this question.  The OP is describing a "very high quality" man, and specifies it in her first post.  They are different than the ones women are complaining about in every other thread, which are low quality or average men (statistical note: male quality is not a bell curve, the median man is actually low quality).  The OP describes a man who is young, handsome, and either wealthy or potentially wealthy, and has a relatively high status occupation (eg. doctor).  Since the OP's relation wants to be a SAHM, we have to rule out very high quality men who use their youth, handsomeness, wealth and status to be "fuccbois", as they won't be interested in marriage.  So that leaves the men who carefully thing about marriage, children and family.  The OP is wondering, what are the requirements her relation would need to meet to have a chance in wooing and marrying this kind of man.

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