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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Honestly, there’s not really a reason to make such a big deal about an 18 year old being pregnant by a 40 year old. What’s the big issue with that? It’s not that uncommon. OP[/quote]

It is extremely uncommon in the US, are you writing from another country where men have more of a property interest in their wives?[/quote]

I’m in the US, I’m just saying that it’s not that uncommon, it does happen thought not often.[/quote]

I know zero teenagers who married 40 year old men. Is the rest of your marriage a nightmare or just this one vacation?[/quote]

I honestly don’t get the outrage here. If he were 70, sure, but he was only 40, which seemed too young to me even back then—come on. I was 18 when I got pregnant, but I wasn’t super young, and we were already talking about a long-term marriage. We just went with the flow, and when we found out I was pregnant, of course we were excited. Age was never a big deal for us. I loved my husband for who he was, not because of anything superficial. OP[/quote]

Yeah, well this is who he is. I don't see how you can be surprised about that. After all, you knew him SO WELL before you decided to have a baby and get married and all of that. And your brain was totally developed by the time you made that decision so of course you knew exactly who he was.

I mean, which one is it? He's this amazing guy and blah blah blah or you married an ahole and you were too young and dumb to realize it? Gee, I wonder.[/quote]

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