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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How old are you and your soon to be exdh? Is there enough money for retirement? Reasons for the gray divorce? 
The answers to these questions  has implications for whether forgiveness is possible. [/quote]

53, 3 kids 18,20,22
Financial issues and not enough for retirement but not dire. 
He wants more passion and feels we have grown apart. [/quote]

So he used you and now he’s legally moving on.

Did he cheat as well? Family life too boring and time consuming so stayed focus on himself, work and sex elsewhere. ? .

Won’t your kids see through this and think less of him? I can’t imagine anyone wanting this for their daughter in her future. [/quote]

Didn’t cheat physically maybe a bit emotionally. Yes def wants fun, adventure, passion, excitement, vitality etc.   already traveled a lot over the years. Very into self development. Kids i can’t imagine the emotional turmoil.  I’m not even engaging with that yet.  [/quote]

Sorry OP but he IS cheating physically...take it from someone who is your age and stage and recently found out. Took me a while to come in terms with it but I have initiated divorce. You did a great job with the kids who are now adults, and they will stand by you![/quote]

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