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[quote=Anonymous] I married at 23 and had my first at 25, so to me having a child in one's mid-20s is not abnormal, even if it's unplanned. I would give my son a big hug and say "everything is going to be alright". And since this is extremely important to me, I would ask whether the girlfriend drank, smoke or took drugs in the past few months, and whether she ate a varied diet. My concern would be lack of folic acid leading to spina bifida, or any fetal injury due to toxic substances. I would tell him he and his girlfriend have my full support whether or not they keep this child. I feel that the bulk of that decision should be made by the girlfriend, since it's her body, and that the my son should only have a small part in that decision-making process, and me, not at all. But if they decide to keep the baby, then I would offer to help them care for him or her. [/quote]
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