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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Women in your life who love you warned you, gave you the truth.

Are you in a non-consensual or arranged marriage?[/quote]

OP has done pretty well in her choice of DH compared to a lot of women.  I bet many women who love her cannot even get their DHs to do what hers does.[/quote]

Because the standard for men is that low. [/quote]

The year that I literally made a list of holiday tasks and asked my husband which half of them he was going to take on.  "How do you see your role in this holiday?"  I asked, and he said he saw himself eating Christmas dinner.  That was his role.  Can you even ^&&*(( imagine?  [/quote]

You married that man, you enabled that man, and yet, here you are, slagging off that man, YOUR man, over some things you chose. [/quote]

She’s not responsible for his behavior. She’s not his parent. [/quote]

Correct. She's responsible for her own behavior. If she followed up that comment with "Cool! Where are we ordering from?" then all's well. But on this thread, the odds are that she then proceeded to do all the things on the list herself, with an attitude, resenting her "^&&*((" husband the whole time.

She's responsible for her own behavior, and her own happiness. If he isn't going to help, she gets to decide what she does and doesn't do. [/quote]

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