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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Married man here. Not one of the lucky ones.  I’m the higher libido spouse who maybe has intimacy twice a month     (maybe). So watching it every so often is can be relief. Nothing crazy and it doesn’t interfere. Likely not aware though.

[b]Also, my wife isn’t comfortable with much more than missionary. So interest on spicing it up with a toy, new position, etc. I should add that she has never had an O. And doesn’t care.[/b]

Of course it’s not realistic. However, by watching it, I get to see what that looks like while getting a release. [/quote]

Ooof. Not much you can do with a starfish. And the fact that she doesn’t care is the real problem. Sex simply is not, and will never be, important to her. The future is bleak, and you will have choices to make.[/quote]
Is it that she doesn’t care or that she’s given up? Because the latter is much more common. Women need a safe place to be sexual. That means not just listening and responding to her, but also being open-minded and EXCITED about her feeling good. (Yes, this goes both ways, but men generally don’t have this issue.)[/quote]

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