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[quote=Anonymous]This entire scenario is bizarre on all levels. I’m still unclear whether this is a financial issue or just some issue of perceived “rudeness”. I have 3 kids, often have their friends along (or they go along with friends) and by age 11, the scenario is pretty much:

-host buys meals, but nearly everyone sends their kid with $$ (or offers money directly to the parent sometimes) which is pretty much always declined 
-if there are special issues, certainly everyone would accommodate but the expectation at age 11 is the kid will speak up for himself (I’m not allowed to have soda, I’m allergic to strawberries or whatever). Often the kids will decide what they would like among themselves & my own kid will tell me what was decided (at least in the case of fast food or road trip food, because most parents don’t really eat it anyway) 
-no one has time to sit & analyze what someone else’s kid is eating, much less make some issue of it with kid’s parent. They are 11, not toddlers. 
-no need to be giving the other parent some sort of rundown unless there was a major behavioral concern- if that. They are 11, not toddlers.

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