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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I regret sending my DD to private school that cost more than 60K a year.   We don't belong there.  We pull DD out at grade 11.  DD was there from grade 6 to 10.  [b]She sees how top 1% live and friendship cannot last long bc of life style[/b].  Entitled kids with different lifestyle and doesn't need to work.  [/quote]

the honesty is refreshing and the bolded is what too many middle class and even working class parents tend to ignore[/quote]

What I took away from this was a high level of insecurity from the kid, probably instilled by the parent. Most kids in my daughter’s private school don’t even consider the economic status of their friends. That’s just the parents unfortunately. [/quote]

Kids don't look at economic status until they are in high school.  The top 1% sticks together.  If you are in lower end, you don't get invite to these party as you get older.   Even if you get invited, you can't keep up with their lifestyle.  You can't fly your kid to Europe for holiday break.   It was great in middle school but as DD get older, it be apparent we don't belong there.  DD still connect with few kids at top tier private school.  Most of these kids go to private liberal art colleges where DD goes to well known public university.  DD was in culture shock to see how the rest of people live when  DD goes to public University.  DD was in a bubble. 60K plus private school is great if you can afford it but it is a bubble.[/quote]

It is not a bubble.  It is life.  Their life.  Which is different.  It is their reality.  Same as if you grew up is a project.  That is your reality.  Both are real life.

For most people in privates -- the 60k a year is a rounding error.  Not at all missed or even thought of.  Same with college costs.  If that is not you then I would not be at a private unless for other reasons it is the best for your child.[/quote]

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