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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We have very good family friends from Montgomery County where the parents took out massive loans so the kids could attend private schools. The parents are struggling to pay the loans back, literally hurting their retirement while the kids have good jobs and are making plenty of money without student loans. Yet the parents feel the continued obligation to do this. It saddens and sickens me.  They had always felt that their kids should be able to attend any college they wished regardless of expense. It’s ridiculous.[/quote]

I’d do that in a heartbeat for my kids if I needed to.  It shouldn’t sadden or sicken you, that’s what some people see as their duty as parents.[/quote]

Same! I certainly would not want to spend my money chasing a lifestyle I couldn’t afford, taking cruises, shopping and redecorating over giving my kids the best education they can get. I don’t understand these people who will spend over 200 K remodeling their kitchens and bathrooms and then expect their kids to pay for college. [/quote]

Exactly.  We are starting on a huge remodel.  We couldn’t start until the college savings was already on a glide path to having plenty for anywhere.[/quote]

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