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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You can easily tell from this thread which posters believed that the sun, moon and stars rotated around their weddings.[/quote]

Exactly, I would not dream that other people would drop everything to come to my wedding. It is not that important - personally I don't give a shit.[/quote]

I wouldn't dream that anyone would drop everything and come to my wedding either, but if I invited someone and they took the time to tell me they weren't coming to my wedding because they had a dinner reservation at a fancy restaurant, I would certainly feel some kind of way about that.

OP's husband should have just said "so sorry we can't make it, take lots of pictures" and kept it moving.  Telling the whole family that none of his family is attending the wedding because she has a birthday party the week before and a fancy dinner reservation the week after is . . . either intentionally rude or simply foolish.[/quote]

It is NOt a "dinner reservation at a fancy restaurant"!  It's "dinner with all of our grown kids in ONe place that we have planned for months to make happen.  Most had to fly to get there and arrange their vacation/work schedule to make it happen" dinner to celebrate mom. [/quote]

OP, how many of the other posts are actually you? I kind of suspected. Take the whole wedding out of the picture--and entire two weekends that simply cannot be changed to celebrate your birthday is the height of self-centeredness and immaturity. Seriously, go volunteer or something.[/quote]

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