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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you are making too much of this conventionally beautiful thing, as well as whether assurances need to be daily. I think women just want to be actually seen and desired. Even if we are not conventionally beautiful, other than incel dude who denies that want and desire are synonyms, if you desire to have sex with a woman, there is probably something appealing about her. Tell her what it is!  It’s not “you’re beautiful” if she’s not (and in fact, even if she is, this is pretty boring).  I’ve been told my hair feels and smells great; I have good legs… a great smile. Some of us need more reassurance than others, but why is it so hard to give someone a real compliment?
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It shouldn't be hard. But daily can be a bit much. I don't give my husband compliments or thank yous daily even though he does things worthy of these comments daily. But you are right. If he needed to hear it daily, i would make more of an effort to do so daily instead of complaining and whining  about it.

It's just that sometimes life goes by and you forget to say it all the time, especially if you work long hours or have too many activities going on. If I hear it once a twice a week, I'm good. [/quote]

One of the early poster said her husband complimented multiple times per day.

Multiple things can be true. It’s wonderful if it happens, but if a person *needs* that level of compliments, I think something going on with the person or the relationship.[/quote]

That was me.  My husband compliments my body regularly even though I’m an overweight middle aged mom, and knowing that he finds me desirable makes me more interested in sex.

What exactly do you think is wrong with me and my relationship?  [/quote]

Do you *need* compliments multiple times a day to function happily in your relationship? You are also the one who posted about the internal voices in your head, no?[/quote]

I’m going to say yes.  I need it to be happy and to have regular sex.

I haven’t had to go without compliments from my husband, but I once had to take an oral exam where the examiners maintained a flat, neutral expression the entire time, and I found it very unnerving.  So I’m going to guess that I need some kind of positive feedback to feel confident.

So, what’s wrong with me?

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It sounds like you need more oral practice.  Willing to help.[/quote]

Hahaha!  I passed my exam, thank you for the offer :).  [/quote]

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