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Reply to "DH walked out, I think- what do I do now?"
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[quote=Anonymous]I think OP's husband is calculating and using withdrawal to punish her. If OP is narrating correctly, he was giving her the silent treatment Sunday morning, and when she addressed it, he brought up a discussion they had tuesday night and an interaction at the plant store thusday night. So, for OP, this is coming from left field. he also knows that by leaving her with no word, and no way to contact him, he is throwing her off balance, especially as they had plans for the day that required both parents' involvement. This is not the same as "we had a fight and he walked away to cool off," this is strange behavior. And then when he returns that night, he doesn't discuss with her, but accuses her of being abusive when she calls him out on the silent treatment. He does not say that he needs a break, he says that there is something wrong with her. I feel for OP and maybe some posters think she is being a drama queen but I think when you are in a relationship with someone who is emotionally manipulative it can start to make you feel crazy. [/quote]
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