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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This thread is funny because the truth is people don't hate this kind of woman and especially not on DCUM. Her entire look is designed to be broadly pleasing.

I have genuinely unique style. I wear a lot of oversized menswear. I love Japanese brands. I love a severe haircut, statement glasses, and weird purses. I do not dress for men (a lot of my clothes totally conceal my body even though I'm in great shape) nor do I dress for other women. I dress for myself, for comfort, to make myself smile when I look in a mirror, to experiment with colors or shapes or patterns, to evoke a mood or to remind myself of a favorite movie or work of art.

Lots of people HATE the way I dress. It actually makes some people visibly angry. I have had total stranger or acquaintances challenge me on my appearance. "Why would you cut your hair like that?" "Why do you wear such baggy clothes?" I've also had people I know criticize me endlessly -- "can't you just wear a regular dress?" or "why do you dress like a man?"

I don't care. This is who I am, I like it. It brings me joy.

The idea that a thin, rich white woman wearing this-season Lululemon, and Cartier bracelet, and with long highlighted blonde hair and Kardashian-inspired contouring is somehow a fashion pariah is laughable. Are you seriously so sensitive to criticism that you can't deal with the occasional eye roll about your totally unoriginal and trend-following style being... well, unoriginal and trend-following? You need a thicker skin.[/quote]

How do you feel about a woman who feels just as empowered and awesome as you do in your unique style who wears trendy/brand name clothes and jewelry? Because what if she likes the way she looks in those clothes just as much as you do in yours?[/quote]

Then, like me, she shouldn't care if people dislike it. Literally people will tell me, to my face, that they don't like my clothes or hair. I do not care. It's not for them.

I think the whole Lulu/Neverfull/Cartier/highlights/manicure/etc lol I'd boring. I'm not a jerk so I don't run around confronting anyone about it, but that's just my personal, immediate reaction -- dull, unoriginal. I don't dislike the woman wearing, it is just not my style cup of tea. But I also know my opinion doesn't matter. I would hope the woman wearing this outfit would know that too.[/quote]

And she probably finds you high maintenance and exhausting. But as you said, it doesn't matter what she thinks. [/quote]

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