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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The parenting board talks a lot about natural consequences for dealing with children's misbehavior. This seems like an obvious natural consequence of having an affair - your betrayed spouse might tell the other betrayed spouse. [/quote]

Yes, it does, but only if you treat your spouse as a misbehaving child. [/quote]
You don't think adults should be held accountable for their actions? You think that only applies to children? Wtf?[/quote]

You are not holding them accountable. You are involving "another adult". That's wtf. Is the next step to contact their HR?[/quote]
The "other adult" is directly involved. It's not reporting them to their boss lol. [/quote]

The "other adult" is the AP's spouse who, you are hoping, will impose the "natural consequences" along with you as your spouse-kids' playdate went too far.

Oh, I am sure you'll report them to the boss. Maybe they will suspend them or give them a detention? [/quote]
If it's an inappropriate workplace relationship, why not?

Why are you so concerned about protecting a cheater?[/quote]

I am not concerned about protecting a cheater, becuase OP's actions are not directed at the cheater.

I don't see a justification for the need to involve the other spouse. I think it's much more humiliating for that person when it comes from anyone other than the cheater themselves. [/quote]

Well he’ll will freeze before that happens …lol[/quote]

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