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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A friend told me my first dh was cheating on me. She was privy to the information because my ex used her and her dh as his alibi. We were all friends. I was SO GRATEFUL to this woman for having the balls to call me and tell me something I had actually suspected. I was lied to and gaslit by my ex. My df did me a huge favor. Decades later I am still glad she told me. She said she did not want to be complicit in the lie.[/quote]

But she was your friend. She told you out of concern for you, not for her own revenge or need to make things like pain equal. Their marriage was blown up, so in her mind, yours should too *because the sectet*. The secret is over already. [/quote] I don't know why you're so hung up on OP telling her AP's spouse about the affair. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. I think most spouses do want to know their partner is cheating on them. No one likes to look like an ass. So whether it was my df who told me or my ex's AP's spouse (she didn't have one), [b]I would have wanted to know. From ANYONE who knew[/b].[/quote]
Agreed![/quote]

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