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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have literally read all 15 pages of this old post.

Conclusion:
OP is a mean girl with bad social skills themselves. She specifically talks about 2 occasions the most, but clearly there are larger neighborhood get-togethers. All she has to do is say, "Oh, hey, let's get neighbor and son over to join us!" She also doesn't realize that her actions now will likely let her down in the future. That being said, I wish neighbor lady said idgaf about your douchey-ness and lived happily ever after with real friends.

Man, I really hate people on a power trip being mean but they always fall. It takes a miserable person to be like that in the first place.
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Are you OK? You dragged up a 2-year-old-thread to offer a “conclusion” about someone you have never met? Whatever is bothering you or threatening your mental health, I hope you get well soon.[/quote]

Obviously someone who has no social skills or ability to make friends was on an internet deep dive and found this thread, then used it as an opportunity to lash out as some sort of weird projection because their own awkwardness.

Also, I think OP would be on a “power trip” if she did try to bulldoze people into inviting other people to events she is not hosting.

The people getting all upset about this are making it clear why they don’t get invited places. No one wants to hang out with someone who is drama and adds stress to their lives. A childhood friend of mine ended up having borderline personality disorder and would lose her mind if I dared to make plans (even impromptu ones) without her. She thought she was owed an invitation to everything and that everyone’s lives basically resolved around her. Anything we did or didn’t do was somehow related back to her. It ended up a self fulfilling prophecy where she ended up losing the friends she did have and wasn’t invited to anything. It is a sad disorder but needs to be worked out in therapy.[/quote]

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