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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To the divorced dads over 40 with kids: Most women looking to have kids of their own, are not clawing at each other to be selfless, step-moms to your kids. Your kids will more than likely feel neglected regardless of what you tell yourself. And you can tell yourself whatever you like about everyone being "bitter," but that's a fact. Once her own kids are born, you'll see who gets prioritized.[/quote]

+1. I am Muslim and my dad has 2 wives. My mom was the second wife. My dad initially didn't want to pay for my college education here because of the cost and also that would take away resources from his other kids. Guess what my mom gave him an ultimatum. Either he pays for me to come here tuition room and board or she will leave him. Lol. Women really really love their children. They will do anything for them. If they are step moms they will look after the interests of their own kids first.

It has created some serious tensions with my other siblings some of whom don't talk to me anymore.

OP don't do it. Blending families is challenging. Maybe look for a woman who wants to be a forever girlfriend who doesn't want kids.I am sure they exist.[/quote]

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